tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35402178.post7380172378998343350..comments2023-07-28T08:30:06.918-04:00Comments on Onederful Bound: Risky BusinessVashta Naradahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18226872593870131074noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35402178.post-31079983766114391622007-01-11T06:24:00.000-05:002007-01-11T06:24:00.000-05:00I thought that too, Vickie. I'm remembering what ...I thought that too, Vickie. I'm remembering what someone said about Thomas Carlyle and his wife: better two people unhappy than four.Lori G.https://www.blogger.com/profile/02167055316077502640noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35402178.post-13917522414083012092007-01-11T05:49:00.000-05:002007-01-11T05:49:00.000-05:00On the bright side - they are probably very well s...On the bright side - they are probably very well suited to one another and "happily" married . . .Vickiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05452333714845476967noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35402178.post-20960081391914978952007-01-10T20:48:00.000-05:002007-01-10T20:48:00.000-05:00I am truly sorry that you have the most lamest and...I am truly sorry that you have the most lamest and unthoughtful doctors in your area. <br /><br />I always approached the doctor's office like you said: going to the gallows. One doctor told my mother that I was too tall and too big for my age. She asked him, "Should we cut off her legs and make her shorter?" (You can see where I get my mouth from!) My poor mother, though, thinks every symptom will be blamed on her weight. <br /><br />You're smart to be proactive and look and do your own research. I don't think that doctors either have the inclination or time to look up the latest research. <br /><br />If he didn't like you doing the research AND genuinely disagreed with it, that's one thing. But it sounded to me like he didn't like you doing the research and he was only going along with it because it didn't matter to him to a degree.<br /><br />It's your body, your risks. You have made a lot of choices and risks and opportunities for yourself. You should proud of yourself for sticking up for yourself all this time and taking care of your daughter, your husband and most importantly, yourself.Lori G.https://www.blogger.com/profile/02167055316077502640noreply@blogger.com